The Village Coach
It takes a village.
Let’s build yours.
They say it takes a village to raise a child.
But what about to raise a Mother?
You deserve more than just survival.
Right now, it might feel like you’re juggling a million plates, running on empty, and losing sight of who you are. That’s not the life you imagined, and it doesn’t have to be the one you stay in.
I’m Helly, The Village Coach. I help mums step out of survival mode, build the support they need, and rediscover themselves along the way.
You deserve to feel calm, confident, and proud of the life you’re living.
If this feels familiar, you’re not alone
Most mums I work with say the same things:
“I feel like I’m wearing different masks for everyone, and I just want to be me again.”
“I get to the end of the day and feel like I’ve achieved nothing, even though I’ve kept small humans alive.”
“I thought this stage of motherhood was supposed to be easier… but it isn’t.”
You’ve been told to push through. To keep spinning the plates. To wear the Supermum badge with pride.
But underneath, it looks like this:
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Burnout that leaves you running on empty
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Guilt for not being the parent you imagined (especially when people say you’ve got it all together)
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Feeling like you’re on a treadmill with no way off
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A quiet sense of losing yourself; your identity, your joy, your spark and the things that make you ‘you’.
And while you care for everyone else, one question keeps whispering in the background:
Who’s looking after you?
We provide a range of services including appointment calendars, online video courses, digital resources, and regular emails to support women in their journey towards balance and fulfillment.
About Me
Who is The Village Coach?
I get it, because I’ve lived it too.
I’m Helly, mum, coach, and founder of The Village Coach. Like many of the women I now support, I looked capable on the outside while quietly unraveling inside. The juggle of motherhood, work, and life stretched me so thin I hardly recognised myself.
Through my own experience of chronic illness, burnout, and navigating the balance of family life, I discovered two truths:
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Rest is not selfish. It is essential.
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Every mum deserves a village, but no two villages look the same.
That’s why I created The Village Coach: a safe, supportive space where you can pause, be heard, and start to rebuild. Coaching with me isn’t about quick fixes or unrealistic routines. It’s about compassion, clarity, and practical steps that fit your real life.
I’ll meet you where you are, untangle the overwhelm and give you a safe space to find the version of yourself you thought you had lost.
Imagine discovering what your own village looks like...
For one mum, it might be a cleaner once a month that eases the load.
For another, it’s a friend she can send honest voice notes to.
For you, it could be reclaiming twenty minutes just for yourself, without guilt, to create a calmer home where you can be present, and even content - rather than constant firefighting.
Your village won’t look like anyone else’s.
Together, we’ll uncover what truly supports you and then make it real.
When you do, life starts to feel different:
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More energy in your day
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More confidence in your choices
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More joy and pride in the life you are shaping
This isn’t about becoming someone new.
It’s about reconnecting with who you already are and creating the life that you truly deserve.
